Think my XH is in Acceptance Stage - HELP

[25yearsmlc]

what kaffe diem said ^^^^

if you and your h are somehow destined to be together, it's not like this.

He's in no position to be in a mature r and that is clear. Your desire to rescue him is something to discuss with your t and see if it's co-dependence

or just wanting him in a postion where he does not have the power and you do.

If your h gets the help he needs and you become someome who can stand on her own feet (and not someone who gets so thrown by his comments and loneliness)

then he can call you in a year. I hate to see a good man, ie the man you are now seeing, be discarded
b/c your ex is ready for round two

but forgot to change or repair himself. As he is, he is bound to repeat his mistakes.

And you have a lot to work through that HE does not want to hear.

How can you realistically think that would work in the long run?

I believe people can change -yes I do- but your h is not there by a long shot -

and in some ways neither are you. Hang in there, tell him to keep seeing the t and call you next year and go explore the OM relationship

and see what a mature loving r looks like, without an OW....