What your H is doing is so so wrong. Has he ever thought about going into politics? a la Newt or John Edwards.

I love that your H wants to convince you what a great guy he is, "dont worry I wont think of the bad times just the good ones"

Does he really think your kids will understand one day when they find out Daddy left mommy while she facing a health battle??

But whatever, we cant change him. The best we can do is get you all the support you need so that you can be the best purg & best mom possible.

If going to Florida is an option where you have support, why wait, go now. I only had 1 of the 3 elements that you have going on, which is my H leaving & saying there is no chance and it was unbearable. I am very grateful that my family showed up big time.

You can not do this alone. Your kids need you to be mentally healthy.

I will with hold comment on your BFF till you announce her decision.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13