I hate to be a pest and I deeply appreciate all of you responding!!! Do any of you have advice on how I handle the comments he makes about loving me or how he made a mistake or when he goes into how depressed he is or when he wants to talk on the phone??????
A small part of me wants to say........are you kidding, you have hurt me so bad then lay into him about what he has done to me like my comment back to him about not being able to replace me. But what good does that do! I truly feel like he is in a bad place and has been for the past three years. We spoke on the phone a few days ago and he seemed desparate to get out of the pain he is in.
This is where we are now and I always tell me daughter to be a part of the solution not a part of the problem! If he is wanting to heal it would be best for all involved, whether or not we get back together, for me not to add to his problem. Again, not rescue but also not hurt.
I know some of you have said to be more like a friend but some of his comments are very intimate!
