MEN! Just when I have come to the point of putting it all behind me; the home we shared has been sold at auction through his devices, not mine, and I feel I can move ahead, he files a motion to cut my alimony, of which I have not yet received a single payment! This based on the fact that he did not get enough in the auction of the house. He let a $230,000 asset go for $161,000, and that is MY FAULT?? My lawyer says not to sweat it, it is just par for the course, but WTH?
Luckily, I had an ammended divorce decree all ready to sign by the judge so that I could file with the Army to garnish his pay. Now just waiting to see. Army said it could take up to 90 days. My signed ammended decree reached the Army before his Motion even hit the Court house. It is not so much that I am worried the judge will consider it, just that, Why can't he just let it go and move on? This is what he wanted, isn't it? Of course, paying me wasn't in his orginal plan, but life is hell.
