I know what MWD says. But, she doesn't say it like you said it in your post to James, and that's what got me riled. We can always find something to shift responsibility, and I felt that you were taking any blame from the man and putting it all on the WAW. I realize my posts are not always read with the intent I meant it to say, as well. That's one reason I've had to delete and rewright this one about a dozen times. That, and b/c I wanted to debate the point. But, I won't.
Well, maybe one. If women try to incorporate the action, then they are often criticized of trying to wear the pants in the M.....being bossy,....leading the man around by his nose.....and the most popular--trying to control.....(the list is endless). But if women try to express their feelings by words, then those words are most often referred to as nagging. So try to realize how frustrating and hopeless that feels for the wife. Just b/c men choose not to listen, doesn't make it right.
I know, you are wired differently, but here's my theory about that......when God created man, He looked at Adam and shook His head and thought to Himself, "I know I can beat that any day of the week!" So then, God created woman!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
