So its not ME doing new things, but it is me living MY life. She gets to enjoy things I have already done and I get to enjoy things I love doing even more because she enjoys it also.
As I said, I never just sat around and said, "W, what do YOU want to do today?" I usually asked her if she wanted to try something I had already done, and mixed something that I know she loves doing in with it.
Read the above in bold and tell me how that makes you feel...
Is that the way it always was ?
That you were so interesting that women should bow to you and what you are involved in ?
Really ?
That didn't come out the way I meant it to. I know my words always get me into trouble on these threads. I don't really take offense to it, its all a learning experience.
Of corse I asked her if there was something she wanted to do. I meant to say it wasn't everyday I just sat around and said "W, what do you want to do today."
I asked her what she wanted to do, as often as I suggested things to do. I also respected her opinion when she suggested and wanted to do things.
I do regret I didn't do as many things as she wanted to do when she asked for me to do them. (Its on my list.)
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
