Women tend to be very sensitive to the thought of someone not being attracted to us ... we tend to jump to thoughts re "he thinks I'm too fat, thin, old, frumpy, not sexy, etc (you get the idea, fill in your own particular insecurity here)" ... and we take it VERY personally.
Is there any truth to what he says about you being detached (and I'm guessing he means distant as opposed to what we mean around here when we say detached) and distrustful?
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
