Why do you feel that he is going to be annoyed? You are trying to predict his moods/behavior. I wouldn't jump the gun on this one. I would wait and see how he is when he gets home. He may very well be back to being quiet and nice, they do tend to flip back and forth.

When you try to initiate things w/him, he may very well feel pressured to accommodate you. You need to step back and just listen and watch him...follow his lead for now. Depression is a monster that tends to take eveyone down in a family, not just the person experiencing it.

For now, take a huge breath and do something nice for yourself. Keep your expectations at zero at ALL times and do not expect him to be able to give you what you want or what you want to here. Depression is doing the talking right now.

Again, I wouldn't leave...you may send him a clear message that it's over and I don't think that's what you want to do. If you are absolutely sure that it is over, then by all means leave...

Destiny, this rollercoaster is not an easy one and you are going to have to develop a very thick skin if you want to continue riding it. They all say and do things that are hurtful to us and many times, they are said to get us to back off. I'm sorry you were hurt, but you now have an opportunity to step back and just leave him be.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.