Destiny, You have been here on the board for quite some time and are aware that depression/mlc will have people saying things, such as they are not attracted to us any longer, the feelings are gone, etc. That is why you have to step back and understand that this is how your h feels right now, these are his feelngs and trust me, his true feelings are stuffed way, way down within his soul.
Because your h has been exhibiting signs of depression/mlc, we all have been advising you to keep the focus on you, i.e., to your niche and continue living your life. Every little "hopeful" sign is just that, a sign w/no guarantee that he was coming out of his depression. I'm sorry that you've heard one of the many speeches that they say. So, now you know what you need to do...focus on you, work on you and whatever you do, do not leave your home. If worse comes to worse, he needs to be the one to leave since he's the one that feels the way he does.
Again, focus on you and understand that YOU can't change the way he feels. YOU are the only one in control of YOU and YOUR destiny.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
