This delay in my posts showing up is killing me....
i get asked the question all the time of do i want him back....and my answer is the exact same as gwn....right now i don't know the answer to that and i definitely don't want the person he is now. But i don't believe that is the person he is.
I think there are underlying issues with him that are beyond this. I have suspected depression for a long time. In talking to his mom and finding out more about his childhood deeper issues makes a lot of sense. It certainly doesn't excuse the choices he has made or his actions but it would help explain...and at the end of the day fix, or give him and maybe us the tools to deal with it going forward.
