The only reason it seems I am focusing on HER right now, is we will be going to [probably] our last MC.

As I said in an earlier post, she only agreed to go to this one, because this was when she was going to tell me she wanted a divorce.

Even though she already dropped the bomb on me, she still wants to go. I just don't want to go in to the MC and say the wrong things, and destroy any chance of reconciling.

I know I have to sit back and listen to what she says, and let her get everything off her chest before I even open my mouth, but I know the time will come when I will be asked my thoughts on the divorce. Obviously its not what I want, and I feel if she got the help she needed we still have a chance.

M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped