So when the WAW says things like yours did, "I had been telling you to get your act together..." well, those are just words.
Had she scheduled an appointment for you two to go to MC, I suspect you'd have straightened right up. Or if she had said if you don't do X I'm going to do Y, you'd have probably taken notice there as well.
But when all we hear is nag, nag, nag and then it stops out of the blue, we think well, things are finally getting better. But then when the WAW takes action, POW!!
Just tell me how a woman is going to get a man to go to MC without telling him why it's necessary to go in the first place. If she actually uses words to communicate then you either see it as nagging or you don't even listen to what she has to say.
I think you've contradicted yourself somewhat. If you see it as nagging and then when she stops you think everything is"finally getting better", doesn't that tell you something was wrong when she tried to tell you? Or do you mean it just got better for the man b/c she finally shut up?
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I suspect you'd have straightened right up
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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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