Yeah for family visits!! They are a great distraction and comfort
So jealous that you got to do Zumba.... that must have been a blast! (I tried, but my heart condition won't let me do more than 15 minutes, and I felt so pathetic having to leave so quickly- so I stopped going)
I kinda laughed about the ipad story. It just reminds me that all boys love 'toys' and most men that I know, don't understand delayed gratification! My H is the same way, once he's decided he wants something- he wants it NOW.
Sounds like you're finding your way through all of this. I can relate to being scared about completely detaching... but I view it like this: There are a ton of strings connecting my heart to him, if I can try to cut at least 1 string a day, I'm proud of myself. I'm not in a rush, but I know that it needs to happen in order for me to heal.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12