TAMF, we definitely need to catch up. Perhaps after the conference I'll give you a call. Thanks for your kind words!
Angel, I need to catch up on your sitch. But from the little you've said, you still have a lot of work to do on yourself. You must come to accept that life isn't fair. There isn't any "making up" that he can do that would ever "make it up" is there? He's battling his own demons on a daily basis. That's not easy. And it sounds like he's made a commitment to you despite the fact that he has to battle daily demons. Despite needing to work on the marriage, don't lose sight of the work you need to do on yourself. He needs YOU to be the healthy and stable one. Be that.
KML - Thanks for your input. He did start weaning a bit quickly in my opinion. He (of course) did it on his own without his doctor's input. I could've been a whiny beeotch about that lack of oversight but he quickly realized he was in over his head on his own. I kept my mouth shut. Unfortunate life lesson for him. Once the conference is over he plans to try again. Hopefully this time with doctor supervision!
As of tomorrow, I will be at the conference with H and know that x-OW will be milling around. I promise to be back next week with a follow up. I also promise to dress and look super good all weekend
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
