Please explain the justification

[Albuquerque]

Still,

I understand why you ask the questions. But answer me this, what answer would satisfy you?

Not all actions can be justified. Not all actions can be explained. I'm not sure of your sitch, but spending your time searching for the "why" will take time away from you dealing with your "now". Her actions may not be right, they may not be fair, they may not be the best for the kids. Problem is, is that it doesn't matter. It doesn't change anything. Concentrate on yourself. Focus on yourself. Use this opportunity to grow and become a better person. Not for her. Not to save the marriage. But because no matter what happens, you will still be stuck with yourself. And your kids will still have you and will depend on you. Be a better you. That's the only thing you have control of.