Glad to hear you are moving into the we shared responsibility for this phase. About a year ago one of the vets put up a lengthy post trying to shakes us out of our funk. I wish I could find it to repost.

Believing in the shared responsibility is an important step, as is knowing you’ll be more than fine when you finally work through this. We all progress at different rates when left to our own self made programs.

Frankly I don’t think it matters how one gets there so long as one arrives.

I have special pictures of the new little one. Pictures I am not to post on FB.
Gunny, I know you’ll appreciate this. She has 4 names on her birth cert. Her initials are K.B.A.R. I chuckle each time I think of it.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill