Ok. I know this is going to sound dumb, but I am going to ask anyways. When you say go dark, what exactly does that mean? Does it mean no contact at unless it is regarding our D or does it mean minimum contact?
Also, another dumb question, how can I make him earn his way back into my life?
H called me tonight and we talked for about 20 min. He talked about our D, his mother and misc other stuff. It was nice. Then he told me that his sister is coming into town on Sunday and wants me to join them Monday night for a family dinner. I did accept that because I would like to see his sister as well.
He told me that he got his haircut tonight. On my way home from class, I had to stop and pickup some clothes for our D and he got his haircut the way I like it. Last weekend I did comment how short he used to wear his hair and I thought he looked good that way. So he did it.
