acceptance stage, where I am becoming a little more balanced in my guilt feelings about the end of the m. I still take responsibility for my actions, but I am a little more cognizant of the fact that my w shared some responsibility also.
Gunny, I think this is the phase I'm moving to also. I know I have a lot of work to do on myself, I know he had his part in things, I'm not angry at him, I accept (and understand) his pain and best of all, I know I will be OK.
I'll have to read the book.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
