Call it DB, or call it getting smarter, or whatever! H and I were discussing something he did and our memories didn't match. I started saying "well no, remember this and this and this and that is how it was" but then I remembered the words rattling in my brain Do You Want To Be Right or Happy? and I ended that subject. (I already knew I was right.)
We rolled into the next topic of being invited to friends for dinner because they have out of town friends visiting. H had some other tentative plans, and I asked him what he would be doing so I could make my plans. He said that our friends invitation trumped his other plans and we would go to our friends. It feels good to hear H's brains returning.
H portrays the image of working hard on his finances to work on his debt. I get caught between believing him and helping him stay current while I then struggle to keep myself current. I am working on finding that middle so we both win.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
