Forgiveness is for you, not for the other person. It is for you so you can move on. It does not mean to say that what the other person is "OK" when you forgive. It does not mean that you condone what they have done.
Being angry at the other person is like a festering wound in your soul, clouding how you think and see.
As 25 says, it is like lighting yourself on fire so you can blow smoke in the other persons eyes.
Why are you holding on to it then? When will you forgive?
It is a choice as well, not something that you have to "feel".
Just like it is a decision to love, and commit.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
