In their case I think the willingness is only to learn to communicate. I think though that Retrouvaille has loosened up they don't even ask that anymore. All they ask for is the willingness to go through the weekend. And regarding OP's, they only asked that the OP not be contacted during the time that Retrouvaille is being conducted.
It's also possible that Retrouvaille groups vary slightly in what they ask or require.
Originally Posted By: angel61
In my case, my H went in seemingly unwilling to work things out, but came out of it a changed person.
Miracles can happen, and for me , as long as the person is willing to go in there, I would say go for it.
I agree. You really have nothing to lose by trying.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
