I've been trying very hard to keep on the right path, and it is tough when we have the push and pull.
When H got home from work he asked me what the workshop was about, and I guess I wasn't really prepared to answer. I guess I should have thought it through, or possibly I just want this for me for right now. I don't want him to have the opportunity to turn this or use it against me.
I simply said "its tough to explain" and he looked quizzical, said "Ok" and dropped it.
I think I needed to do this for me, and consider it a 180. In the past I would have felt the need to share every detail and get approval.
Just tell him "It's a self-improvement thing, and it's personal," and then either leave or change the subject.
