Alb - it is so good to hear from you! We need to really catch up. I read your post and I smile and shake my head...you did it. you really did it! I know that it is still hard and you have to work at it everyday, but wow. You outlasted his MLC. Congratulations! I like that you are still stopping to reflect and make sure you don't fall back into old patterns. Very healthy.
I pray your marriage becomes stronger than ever. If anyone can do it - you can!
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12