Oh goodness Michelle. I'm so sorry you are facing this. It does sounds like he is having some adjustment issues and may need more help than the AD's are giving him. Is he having any therapy in conjunction?
You are one of the most fabulous, down to earth women I have had the good fortune to get to know these last 4 years. Don't you ever think you are not a keeper. You are a forever kind of woman, he's just not feeling like a forever kind of guy right now.
Definitely time to do some serious DBing on him. Definitely go at least dim on him. Keep being your active, wonderful self but stay mysterious about it.
What are your goals? Solution oriented...remember.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!