I read a book recently called "Should I stay or Go? How Controlled Separation Can Save Your Marriage"
It guides you through the process of setting up a "Controlled Separation". Which might be something to slow her roll toward a divorce. It gives a time limit for the agreement, you write a contract together, all the ground rules are spelled out.
I am not sure that actually getting divorced is a good step!
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!