The DB thing may already be STARTING to slowly pay off for me (just barely, but wasn't there something about noticing the small positives??) so there's definitely truth to what you say!


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12