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I am in no position to be giving advice, my sitch is by far resolved, but even I can tell that you have way to many expectations for this weekend....

I wouldnt print out ANYTHING to give to him, or give him ANY books to read. He will just think it is crazy attempts on your part to "prove his is wrong" and I dont know about you but I never react well to that.

I wouldnt even mention or bring up the R on the ride home...if it does make him think, he needs to get home and have some time to hash it over in his mind away from you. If you pressure him on the ride home I think you will ruin any progress that may have been made. dont expect this miraculous talk on the way home of him saying hes seen the light and want to try again, it most likely wont happen that way, although I know you wish it would...wouldnt that be great??!!
let the weekend happen and then let it go .....and just watch and see if there has been any change in him...
Thats just my thoughts...I know how you are feeling, I wish everyday that SOMETHING would happen to open my Hs heart and let him see what he is walking away from...

but thats something they have to figure out on there own and it has to be on there timeline....

good luck this weekend!!!