Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
So the question is, how do we change to match our spouse, so long as it keeps with who we want to be?
Yep. That's the million dollar question, isn't it? I tried to figure out a way of putting the question into "words to live by," but I couldn't come up with anything catchy. Anyone else got any ideas?

The best I could come up with is something that I posted fairly often in my old days of DB-ing:

My goal is to become the best Andy I can be.

I went back through my old threads a little, and came up with another "words to live by" quote that was very popular a few years back. It was something that came up whenever someone went into panic mode, and were trying soooooo hard to fix their R now

Piece by piece... slowlee slowlee....

Piece by piece, of course refered to Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again

And how do we do that?

slowlee slowlee

Here's more "words to live by":

"People will forget what you said
People will forget what you did
But, people will never forget how you made them feel"

--- Anonymous


Andy