Ok guys... which way here... respond, not respond. Neither was a crisis... and both had been taken care of.
The why was more about why the funny stories. Was it an intro to the question? Connection? Who knows.
There wasn't a need to ask those questions. She could have easily verified the milk balance on her own via the online system. The appointment isn't for weeks... it could have waited.
I'm attempting to not be at her beck and call, and not jump at each thing. But still be responsive on kid issues. Waiting an hour in each of these responses did not adversely impact our S in any fashion.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD