You have done some really introspective work for yourself. And from what we read, you have really seen the light.
25 highlighted the points that you should probably work on , although.....
You are the kind of person, that runs the risk of taking this conversation too deep , and would probably try to "fix" this whole thing with this exchange.
What I would suggest doing, is taking some time, and allowing those points from above to REALLY become who you are, and THEN follow this up with a short and sweet talk , from you heart.
Give her just enough to want to follow that up, by hearing more.
This is a conversation that HAS to be from your heart, not some rehearsed speech ( which she will feel that from you ).
One of the things that she NEEDS to SEE, is that you ARE different, and not as rehearsed as you have been in the past.
That you are willing to take life as it comes, instead of planning every second of it, and pouting when things fail to go as planned.
This is how you SHOW those things.
And if you really believe in your changes, and they are real, then let your heart speak to her....
