I hear you about noticing the small steps. I'm choosing to take the fact that yesterday's discussion with my wife didnt have any real ARGUING or more notably 'hostile bait' - even though it WAS about a divorce settlement - as a good step.


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12