OK, thinking out loud. Lady is used to being with men who can give very little (2 alcolholic husbands) and she's saying to you she'll take whatever you have to give...um, pattern emerging! Now, not that she should be demanding a ton of attention right now but her attitude strikes me as a needy lady giving you the wheel "whatever you want works for me" Hm. You told her that if ex showed up and wanted to work things out you'd have to strongly consider it...OMG, at least she got mad! Maybe you don't want to give her more because she's willing to take very little...I dunno, again, just thinking out loud, do with it what you like
