Over the last couple of days, I've begun to feel more empowered... just focus on my happiness and let her be... and detach kindly. She is still acting very angry toward me; snaps at me in response to everything... I let it roll off and tend to my son.
I would still very much love to have her get counselling and/or see her doctor about her depression (she is already on meds), but she's not having it. I thought about reaching out to her sister to let her know what's up, but I fear that my wife will just get angry for "invading her privacy".
DB coach and my in-person counsellor locally say it's up to me. Has anyone out there faced with MLC and Depressive spouse reached out to their spouse's family to get them help?
I really want her to begin to heal... for her and our son. I'm doing what I can to take care of my own healing in the meantime.