hope you love her, cause you're stuck with her now

[MichelleLT]

*sigh* I never expected to be on here again for a relationship issue, guess it was only a matter of time. Roger is such a good guy, such a great guy. We share so many interests, generally get along fantastic, travel well together, etc. But a few things, work stress, financial stress, him going back on anti-depressants, have all contributed to a few problems with the love life. I'm pretty frustrated, he's pretty frustrated, we're both frustrated about the same things though ironically. I think the solution would have been that he would like for me to initiate more, but it's rather hard to desire someone who comes home every day grumpy and complains about work, money, the stress of buying a house, traffic, the commute, etc etc etc.

But I also wonder if it's too late for that. I am not sure he would be receptive at this point if I even tried. I don't think he believes things can change. I think he's bought into the whole ILYBNILWY thing. *sigh* I should probably get some sleep. Maybe I'll feel more brilliant in the morning. I do hate sleeping by myself though (he's at his house because he needed to do laundry and such, and I had to come here because the dog was in my yard).