Agreed, when you have daughter, go dark. Tell him when you get her, that you will contact him if anything bad happens, otherwise don't expect to hear from you.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
