Mach1 you are absolutely right, I do have to stop worrying about what she does or thinks, I have to stop mindreading and assuming.

I am on the right path for myself, I guess on nights I have my son and once he goes to sleep, I lose focus and think of her too much.

She says the last 2 years were a little rough, but 8 months ago was the breaking point where she started to cross the thresh hold.

I know a couple months of changes isn't enough to change her opinion of things. Thanks again for setting me back on track!

M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped