Thinking here---

I feel like if I go dark now, since I have D for the next 5 days, that will be giving him what he wants. But if I go dark/dim when he has our D, wouldn't that have more of affect on him?

25 -- What is your advice here?

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)