Ex just left to take the kids to the library. He was pretty snippy with me. He apologized and said he's just aggravated. I didn't ask why. I walked away instead and got some more clothes into the wash. I'm not his shoulder anymore. He asked me if I've weighed myself lately because I look like I've lost more weight (I have). I had to practically force them out the door. He kept sitting around trying to talk to me. Not happening.
He keeps insinuating that I'm going to screw him over re: child support. Ticks me off! I'm not that kind of person. He said emotions are running high and people change because of them. If anything, I'm worried he'll change for the worse due to all of this. Not me, though. I'm coming out stronger and happier.
I'm definitely going to be sticking to these boundaries. I'm forcing myself to actually look at him and who he is right now, and I do not want that person for my partner. I could spend the rest of my life pining for the person that he was, but he is not that person, and I will not waste my time chasing a ghost.
M & H 25 T 9 D 7 S 4 Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me. Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out 2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other. 3-4-12 H moved back in. 3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done
