I agree with CE. Please don't get caught up with the OW (if it exists). My H former OW was self-centered and only seemed to want material things my H provided, and he did so to get what he thought was "a life". I was not real, which he said he realized. Meeting with a L is smart thing to do. I remember my first visit - I sat in my car and cried before going in because I viewed it as the end. Seeing the L gives you information to help protect yourself now matter the status of our M's.
And to follow-up to WHG, the grass may appear to be greener on the other side, but time can only tell. Don't fret or give legs to what he says right now. (((HUGS))
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OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
