(((((((((purg)))))))

So sorry. This is right back to your comment about taking your heart out, stomping on it and putting it back into you.

Please try not to get caught up in comparing yourself. No one is perfect and from what I've read on this board the WAS will only see what they want to see in OW. You're great with who you are no matter what. I hope you can take a breath and see what is really happening by your friend. Don't let your brain run out too many scenarios. Your speculation is only speculation. I hope you can find some form of the facts so you can work with the reality and not your fears (trust me, it doesn't work well, I've been there).

just a suggestion, by IMHO, if she is your friend, maybe you need to manage that conversation with her rather than place your H as the go-between. Not sure of the whole sitch so do what you think is best. just a thought.


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms