Here is the harsh truth. Your sitch is very different... Because of your age and the length of time you've been together, he is trying to find himself. And he wants to explore new experiances. I know because I got married very young too. You are both very young.
But...
It's obvious that he wants to cake eat.
Case in point: He tells you that he does not want to commit... BUT tells you he still loves you to KEEP YOU CLOSE.
He tells you that he does not want to commit... BUT ML to you to KEEP YOU CLOSE.
He tells you that he does not want to commit... BUT tells you how amazing you are to KEEP YOU CLOSE.
He tells you that he does not want to commit... BUT tells you he he had the most amazing sex with you to KEEP YOU CLOSE.
AND... HERE IS THE BIG ONE...
He askes you where you going and who your seeing in order to assure that you don't STRAY TO FAR so he can KEEP YOU CLOSE.
A little more mystery and he will come back. Right now your an open book and you need to stop.
Let me say again that you have a TON of power here...
You need to GAL and he needs to NOT KNOW what you are doing and who you are seeing.
It is no longer any of his business.
Come on Jenna... Strength!!!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
