DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)

[kolja]

And like you I wish more DB'ers would post their successes. From my perspective it's as important for others to see that, as well as for me to hear their input on it just as it was when things were god awful. I'd love to hear more of how people came to terms with this and evolved and hopefully R.

I'll jump on that bandwagon. I'm sure that once a lot of people succeed, they're investing more time in their renewed marriage and not posting here as much and if they are it's probably in the 'piecing' subforum. That's why I'm so grateful for folks like 25mlc and bustorama for hanging out here with all of us.