Just got a minute to check and saw I got locked up. Above is the link to the previous thread.
I have looked at myself in the mirror the last few days and I like where I am at the moment. I have a possible interview for a new job, lost weight, got new bedroom furniture well technically my only furniture I own. Have some good plans with my kids this weekend.
I like the changes I have undergone. Also I have not seen my therapist for three weeks. Next week is my first appointment he had to cancel the past 2 weeks.
My W and I are a little more chatty during the day through instant messenger.
Monday night had a little bit of a scare. My S was with me cause I took him to gymnastics and my W had my D at her gymnastics. She got home first and text me that our condo smells like gas. I got there and in the mail room is the OM calling the management company. Well this happened last year and you have to call the gas company. She ended up taking kids to my neighbors place and I left. Not too happy about leaving them there. No one got back to her about what was going on and if gas company ever showed up. I told her to call me if she needed anything I was at the gym and would carry my phone, which I don't normally do. When I left the gym she said she just got the kids to bed and was going to sleep herself. I told her to leave the sliding door open a crack as well as a window just in case and to be safe. She thanked me for the help. I text her in the morning to make sure everything was ok. No one notified her what was going on or if the gas company even showed. Made me so happy(sarcasm)to hear that no one not even the office put a note up regarding this. So I called the office cause to see what the problem was. They told me a unit above us left there oven on and that's where the leak came from. I thought gas would travel up not down to the ground floor. We don't have air ducts or anything like that. Everyone is fine. We have also been sharing kid stories the past few days of there activities. I picked up some bathroom wipes for the kids and I know she was out so I took half of the package and left the remaining in my D backpack. Told her they were in there for the house. Been taking more initiative she is doing her first triathlon and asked for help on facebook. So when I was at the gym speaking with a trainer I asked for her if there was someone there who trained people for that. Got a number and gave that to her as well. Feels good in a way to be helpful when I can. Past few years I really was not like this, don't know why. Kind of funny how I enjoy being useful. Watched Crazy stupid Love, it was recommended to me by a friend who said it really mirrors my life. He was right for most of the film. Great movie if you have not watched it and I love two lines from it.
First line Steve Carrell to Julianne Moore "I'm so mad at you. Really mad at you for what you did. But I am also mad at myself too. I should have fought for you. Because you fight for your soul mates."
Second line Steve Carrell to Julianne Moore "I will never stop trying because when you find the one, you never give up."
M37 W34 S6 D3 M8yrs T14 S 1year Told me she doesn't want to be married 10/2011 "I will never stop trying because when you find the ONE, you never give up." Steve Carrell Crazy, stupid, Love