2tp is correct. But also you have to protect yourself first and foremost. I was told the same that I am saying to you. Initially I was handing all of it over to her and looking for a homeless shelter.....
Are you willing to lose everything in the hopes she doesn't get pissed? really? If she is going to D you have to protect yourself financially and the kids. Let the L's do the dirty work just say he told you to say or put that in the agreement. You have to treat it as a financial deal/business like. I know it is weird to fight someone you love and been with for decades. But that is what a D is, adversarial. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
