LOL, I was trying to not talk to him about it, he engaged the conversation with me. He wanted me to tel him that I understood that this was merely for communication for our son, and that the divorce was stil going through, and didn't want me to go into the weekend with false hope. All I asked him was that letting go was one of the options after this weekend, I have 2, we either reconnect and decide to work hard to repair what we've broken, or we meet on the court date in 3 weeks to finalize the D. Myself, his mother and grandmother have all asked him to at least humor the option of reconciling through the weekend and that it's never too late for anything. Hopefully he won't bring it up again with me. I told him if it would make him feel better to talk to one of the mentor couples that we had contact information for, and he said he wouldn't do that because he felt like he was being force fed purple kool aide
