For the WAS- the M got tough, too tough as most of them say, and they walked away. It makes me think of the vow: "for better or worse" and how when it came down to the wire, the WAS couldn't keep that vow: that adversity was too much for their character to stand up against.
I've had this thought a couple times, but make myself stop. ("Mental stop sign" if you will). It's not a road I want to go down - I feel like IF we get to reconcile, this line of thought could be subliminally toxic to me. I'm afraid that without even realizing, I could feel like I was the 'better' one for having stuck it out and that subconcious feeling could completely undermine any second chance I'm given... just a thought...
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12