Yes Antlers,

That is HUGE! It is the first really big step to take in letting go and moving on.

I don't think I've ever really forgiven my ex although he never showed any remorse and that was the part i really couldn't get past.

But it is different for each of us - how we deal with our past, shapes our future.

I am glad that you have turned this corner.

All the best for you in this new year of your life. A new chapter in your book.

Barb