And to be honest, I really don't need the answers to those, but you better have them in place...
CO....WAAAYYYY too much focus still on her. What she does, how she thinks.
Still WAAAAYYY too much mindreading of what she is thinking, or how you can change what she is thinking...or how what you are doing, is affecting her thoughts and actions...
You have been trying to DB since....November ? Is that correct ?
Four months ????
And you think 7 years of your actions affecting her, is going to change because of one heartfelt letter to her ???
TIME, Consistant actions, and space...
Your GAL , 180's , and focusing on how YOU contributed to the breakdown is how that time passes quicker.
You work on defining yourself, forgiving yourself, defining what unconditional love means to you...
You don't give the facade of doing better, you actually DO IT !!!
Take some time, and think about the questions above.
