I agree with the others. Consult a L. My W kept telling me the same that I did not need one that all we had was the house. But she got a L and served me. So when I met with mine things changed. I am entitled to 401ks and even some alimony. He is responsible as a father for child support specially if you can't afford to care for them. That is a man's 1st responsibility to financially care for his children. SO DON'T let him off the hook


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden