"Anger is a defense mechanism where you take whatever is bothering you and is wrong within you, then you project it on another person and blame him or her for it. Frequently the other person accepts the blame, which satisfies you temporarily but doesn't solve the problem,"
Man have I been guilty of doing this^^^^^^.
"Resentment kills a fool" (Job 5:2).
"Don't you realize that this will end in bitterness?" (2 Samuel 2:26).
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“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”